"Who Else Would Like to Be Able to Squeeze the Last Bit of Juice Out of EVERY Outing You Have and Come Back Home With a Pile of Phone Numbers and Business Cards Every Time?"
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Saturday, May 25 , 2013 ,
Dear Friend and Fellow Networker,
Hey there. Dr Ali here, writing you from the frontlines of human social research. At least that's what I call it when I go out these days.
I've been working on a little project for you guys which I think you will find very, very useful and highly accessible. Some background first.
My formal academic training is in science, medicine and business. Although material from my training at Harvard, Cambridge and UC San Diego Medical School do inform this course, it's my experience outside the classroom that's even more relevant to this topic.
I've been running social events for quite some time now. Back in college, I was the student body chair and social coordinator for my dorm. After college when I lived in Boston, I regularly organized some very successful parties. And here in Los Angeles, I've been running a networking group for some years and co-hosting regular monthly events with 300-400 people in attendance.
It's safe to say that I've had hundreds of opportunities over the years to observe people and notice what works and what doesn't in a live networking event.
In particular, a couple of nights ago, I was out at a beautiful place right on the beach in Malibu. On a weeknight, it was jam-packed with young, good-looking, affluent singles who were ready to have a good time and make new connections.
Now, you and I know what to do when we see one interesting-looking woman or man we'd like to meet. You go up to the person and start talking.
But what do you do when there are 300 of them?
I also noticed something else. Most of the people weren't doing a great job of working the room. Let's take my old friend Brian, for example.
Now Brian is about 40, well-to-do, and a very nice guy. He looks about average, has done well for himself, and is very well-educated -- college degree and MBA.
Brian is at the phase of his life where he's ready to find a good woman and have a family. So he's really interested in meeting eligible women. Presumably, that's why he was there that night.
However, what I noticed was that he actually wasn't meeting very many of them -- even though there were hundreds in attendance.
He was mostly chatting with people he already knew, or hanging with me as I navigated the venue.
What's up with that? I mean, he can call me up and talk to me any time. Why wasn't he taking full advantage of the situation?
And then it made sense: he didn't really know how. Or he knew how, but wasn't comfortable doing so. And remember, this is a guy who's motivated. He wants to get married in the next year!
Let's look at some other case studies. These are all people I know, so their names have been changed to protect the innocent:
- Robert. 32-year old lawyer. Handsome, funny, well-dressed. Has a great time at these events, and has no problem talking to people. Somehow never leaves these events with a single new phone number in hand.
- Suzanne and Kathryn. They come to almost all of these
events every time we have one. They're both pretty, single and looking, late 20s. But somehow they
always both end up sitting in some corner of the bar talking to themselves and hardly ever meet new
guys they could be interested in. Next month, they come to the event again -- same story all over again.
- Marco. He's a younger fellow, just a few years out of college. Good-looking kid, well-dressed, nice job. He would just flit from one group of people to another, not knowing how to break in or how to get a conversation going. He spent most of the evening looking like a lost puppy.
- Judy. Mid-30s professional. Hovers around the front entrance, chit-chatting with the two girls at the registration table (who are busy, mind you) for most of the evening. Does not end up meeting many new men, which I know is what she's there for.
If any of those stories resonate with you, perhaps this course is the solution you're looking for.
The fact is that most people don't know how to navigate a social occasion to get the most of it. Heck, most of them don't even know what they want to get out of it.
Now there's nothing wrong with that per se. And if you're out just to have a good time, that's fine.
But most of us get dressed up, drive out to a place, pay for parking and drinks to get something out of it all. The opportunity is there. Why not take advantage of it?
Imagine this: what if someone truly incredible, someone who could significantly enrich your life, ends up sitting right next to you, and you never meet her (or him) because you are too shy or just couldn't be bothered?
Wouldn't that be like stepping on a $100 bill and walking away because you just didn't notice it? Wouldn't that be a lost opportunity?
What if exactly the right business contact, the person who could be the catalyst for your success, is at the event, but you two just never happen to meet, even though you're in the same room?
Most of all, the opportunity lost here is time. Time is the one commodity, unlike money or property, which simply cannot be replaced. It's the most valuable thing you have. Time IS life.
So why not get the most out your life when you're already investing the time and energy to get your butt out there? Especially if you're a busy professional with only so many outings a month, it would be nice to be able to capitalize on these occasions.
That's why it's so important to be prepared. So when opportunity strikes, you are fully present to capture it.
The fact is that success these days happens through association with other people. There are no one-person armies out there doing it all. And often, people with great networking skills end up having orders of magnitude more success because they're better able to find the right people -- and connect in a meaningful way.
Wouldn't it be nice if you knew that if you walked in a room and spotted a man or woman you'd like to meet, you would speak to that person before the end of the evening beyond a shadow of a doubt?
Wouldn't it be useful if you knew that, if you actually liked that person, you would get the phone number beyond a shadow of a doubt and in all likelihood see him or her again?
How good would it feel if you knew that you could walk into any room and leave it with a new batch of friends who think you're a remarkable, worthwhile person?
Some of you can already do all of these things, and tha'ts fantastic. And the good news is that the ones who don't can learn how. Naturally and easily.
That's why I've put together a new teleseminar course called Tao of Networking. It goes into deep techniques for squeezing out the last bit of juice out of every outing you have.
Let's face it -- you're a busy person. If you have time to just watch one movie a month, you want to make it a good one, right?
Same with your outings. If you only have time for so many of them, you want to get the most out of each one.
So I've put together this course for you which brings together the best techniques from the Tao of Persuasion course, The Tao of Dating book and live seminar, Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), hypnotherapy, pyschology, neuroscience, and my own observations as a longtime networker.
Basically, it's going to be like a 2-hour highlight reel, with the most effective, usable techniques that you can put to use immediately.
Here are some of the skills we cover in the course
Preparation: beliefs and mindsets for successful networking. Get this part down, and you can speak to anyone, anywhere.
Tuning your state. Meditation techniques, anchoring and drills to get you feeling good and in the zone for maximal effectiveness.
How to feel powerfully at home in any venue. Feel and act as if you own the damn place.
The importance of timing. When you show up has a lot to do with how successful your outing is going to be.
The Ultimate Handshake Technique. How to make your very first interaction with someone unforgettable.
How to make an entrance. What to do and where to stand for maximum impact.
The secret of irresistible charm. This is what gets you invited back again, and again, and again...
Foolproof ways of remembering names, even if you think you're terrible at it now. How impressed will people be when you're the only one remembering all of their names?
How to get rapport rapidly and deeply. This is the main secret behind making acquaintances that turn into something meaningful in your social and business life.
The Art of Conversation. How to get people to talk about themselves whether they're extroverted or introverted
How to get contact info consistently. Know you will get that business card, email or phone number when you want it.
Advanced techniques for getting contact info. Short on time? Several people watching you? No problem -- these techniques allow you to pull off what you thought was not socially possible.
The Art of Follow-Up. When to get back in touch people, and what to say when you do.
You will receive the course as an MP3 recording of a 2-hour class in which we cover all the points mentioned above.
In addition, you'll receive these valuable bonuses
Transcript of the class session in PDF format. That way, you don't have to worry about missing a single word on the call. I find transcripts very useful, since they allow you to review the material at your own pace, or to really dig in to one particular portion that you'd like to master. An $80 value.
Step-by-step cheatsheet. Carry this with you to your next networking event to remind you of each technique and when to do it. I have usually found this one item to be worth the price of admission alone. A $30 value.
Email tutorial after the course. Most people take a course, get really excited about the material, then go back to their old selves after a little while and forget about the cool new stuff they learned. We want to make sure you really get this stuff, so you'll receive weekly tips and reminders to test out your techniques, making them a natural part of your behavior. A $70 value.
If you don't have it already, your own copy of the booklet The Tao of Social Networking: How to Build a World-Class Network and Become a Social Maestro in Any City. A $24.95 value.
All of this adds up to over $300 of solid value, yours for only $47
This is the education you wish you had gotten
Some of of the results you'll get from this course will feel like magic. Just knowing that in a situation in which you formerly may have felt frustration, fear or helplessness you can now enter with power and choice -- that to me is the magic.
Most important is that these are life skills that you are going to use for a long time to come. It's a real shame that this kind of information -- the kind of knowledge that makes you a more effective human being -- is really never taught in school.
The other thing you can look forward to is that this is going to be a lot of fun. Look -- no one's forcing you to take this class. You're going to do it of your own volition, because you want to! And because the information is directly applicable to your life, right here, right now.
Try Out 'Tao of Networking' Risk-Free
I'm so convinced that you will absolutely love the material in this course that I'm offering a full 100% money-back guarantee for 30 days after you've already taken the course and received the bonuses. If you feel that you didn't learn at least one thing that will significantly improve your results in your social outings, just let us know up to 30 days after your purchase, and we'll be happy to issue a refund right away. And you can keep all the great bonuses.
I'm ready to enroll now and really learn Tao of Networking, Dr Ali!
And who can put a price on what you'll get out of it?
Let me ask you this: What's the value of one date that you could get out of your next outing that you would not have gotten without your new skills? And what if that person turns into a long-term, fulfilling relationship?
What's the value of one new business contact (or someone who leads you to a contact) that tranforms your career and takes you to the next level?
I have had those kinds of meetings. And I would pay thousands for the kind of information that would allow me to have more of them. But you don't have to. Because your investment for Tao of Networking is just $47.
The true motivation behind this seminar
Guys and girls, I want to tell you something. I've said it before, and I'm going to tell you again why I'm creating this teleseminar.
I want you to kick ass. In every area of life.
And kicking ass sometimes means being able to capture that fleeting opportunity right as it's flying by you. And I want you to be like opportunity flypaper -- so you know you have the skills to capture that opportunity every time.
And this is why I want to make this course so accessible to you. Your investment for this course -- and I do mean investment, since when you use this material it will pay you gigantic dividends for the rest of your life -- is a mere $47.
A fraction of what you would pay for a night class at your local university -- but probably a heck of a lot more useful. And you can enjoy the whole thing from the comfort of your home, office or MP3 player.
I'd like to register for my class now, Dr Ali
What previous students have to say
This is the first time we're doing the Tao of Networking teleseminar. However, the material in this course is similar to that which we had in a previous very popular teleseminar -- the The Tao of Persuasion. Here are some comments from students who completed that course:
"This is my second ride with you, which I think is a compliment in and of itself. I've really enjoyed the persuasion class and do look forward to putting the material into use. I'm very glad that the replays are available, lots of material covered, and my attention was usually a bit off by the end of the sessions (its was late here in the east). I found your approach to the material clear and organized, I've listened in on too many seminars and classes by others where there didn't seem to be much in the way of organization or planning. I've heard most of the top level items you discussed previously, and found this class filled in both the hows and whys of the techniques. "
-- J.L., New York
"If I had to pick ONE THING to tell a friend about your course that was most valuable, I wouldn't mention any particular strategy or skill. What impressed me most was the fact that so much of the information we covered was LEVERAGEABLE to other areas of my life...and in a BIG way.
For example...I've consciously eliminated the BUT's, IF's, and TRY's from my vocabulary. It's not easy to do...I'm working on it every day, and already I've seen improvement in my confidence and decisiveness.
The whole "Standard American Melody" thing was another unexpected idea that I've applied to make positive changes.
One other thing I've been doing thanks to your course (and it worked last week when I had an argument with my brother) is pacing people's objections instead of fighting them. Pacing underlying beliefs is less adversarial and allows you to "buy time", so to speak, to continue to elicit and gain more information you can use to your advantage. It's also very "Tao" and consistent with your whole philosophy. So this is one simple idea from the course that has allowed me to increase my effectiveness and persuasive abilities...
The course has also made me realize just how many persuasive situations we're in all day, every day. This is HUGE. Being aware of the fact that there are so many opportunities out there each day to persuade and get what you want out of life has been empowering."
-- Corey W., San Francisco, CA
"I am very pleased with my investment in this course. My sticking point has
always been how to keep a conversation going with a woman I feel attracted
to. While I still have a lot of practicing to do, I'm finding that using the back-tracking technique to build rapport and then asking specific
questions to elicit values gets rids of the basis for my anxiety, which is
knowing what to say next in order to impress." -- Michael M., Los Angeles, CA
I've said this before, but it's worth repeating: I've attended a lot of seminars, and it's pretty safe to say I haven't left any of them 2 feet taller, or had women instantly swarm to me like bees to nectar as soon as I stepped outside, or had people throwing $100 bills at me. But if I learned just one thing that I implemented later, met one person who became a friend or helped me along the way, had one mental shift to see things from a new perspective, or heard just one word that set me on a path of greater enrichment, each one was worth it.
One more thing: this course isn't for everybody. Yes, I've done a lot of the hard work of picking the best information and presenting it to you in a package that you can digest and use. But you still have to do the work.
This is all about expanding your comfort zone. Which means that you're not going to get to 'be yourself' (my favorite euphemism for being lazy). This is about testing out new stuff, some of which will be novel and unfamiliar, downright different.
Sure, I'm there to help you along and make it as easy as possible for you to win. At the same time, it will require effort and initiative on your part to really use the material and make it a natural part of who you are.
And frankly, I've got a reputation to maintain here. I'm a demanding teacher and only want the very best students. Are you one of them? If so, here's how you can register:
Click here to learn the Tao of Networking For Only $47
As I've said before, one of the most powerful concepts of the Tao is the power of now, and the only time anything happens is right now. Tomorrow never comes.
In fact, if you're reading this now and thinking that certain aspects of your life could be better, it just may be because some day, way in the past, you wanted to do something and said, "Oh, I'll do that next time. Oh, that person will walk by again -- I'll say hi then. I'll take the next seminar that comes along. Yeah, I'll get around to taking care of this part of my life LATER."
And LATER never came.
When you postpone your own fulfillment, the only thing that happens for sure is that you get older. So if this is the course that's right for you, if this is the kick-start you need to get on with living an unprecendented life, then why don't you join us. I would be thrilled to have you, and we're going to have a lot of fun.
The power is within you, my friend,
Dr Ali Binazir
P.S.: This material draws from and expands upon my other courses which have already helped a lot of people get more fulfillment out of their lives. This material is tested, proven and highly effective, derived from psychology, neuroscience, NLP, hypnosis, world-class networkers and my own extensive experience. In addition to the rigorous standards of quality and organization that I bring to every course from my academic background at Harvard, Cambridge and UCSD Medical School, I'm dedicated to making your course fun and immediately usable in your daily life. It's everything you want to learn in exactly the way you most enjoy learning it. We've done all the effort of bringing it together and done all the quality control so you don't have to worry about a thing. So come join us -- it's going to be a blast. Click here to register for only $47
P.P.S.: The course comes with a 100% money back guarantee. So if for some reason, up to 30 days after your purchase, you think it's not right for you, just send us back the material and we'll be happy to offer you a refund.
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